im a rat 3/17/84 and my honey is a tiger 5/4/86 .

Hi, your frequent arguments should be attributed to your different characteristics and interest. It seems that you have little common topic for communication. In this case, if you wanna save your relationship, it is suggested to stop being self-centered and your honey has to control his temper. Then you both should be responsible for the relationship.

Cat and mouse game
Tiger and Rat are tricky together. Be more mindful and less critical bc Tiger hates being told what to do or to be criticized and Tiger must learn to accept and not be easily offended or do things solo and try to work together.