what is the fate of my relationship with my husband. I am tiger 9/30/1974 and he is Snake 5/12/1965.

I'm afraid that mutual trust lacks in your relationship. To solve that, you need to spend more time in communicating. Besides, both of you are a little impulsive, which may have negative effects on your relationship. I suggest you be more considerate and bearable to each other so that you may reach a hamonious atmosphere.