Hi he is born in 21 july 1974 and I'm born in 13 November 1981. Will the relationship work

To be honest, according to Chinese astrology, this pair may not be a good one. You always focus on pursuing your own happiness and seldom cares about the other one. Meanwhile, you always want to escape the reality. But in my opinion, if you love each other, you can get married and you will have a good marriage life in the near future.