Help with Bazi compatibility I was born on 1/10/1989 at 9.10pm his is 4/4/1987 1.28 am

Yes, marriage will fall upon sooner or later, because you have great affections to each other. The only problem you need to pay attention to is that you both are too sensitive, so many arguments may happen. To overcome that, you will live a happy life for long.

Thank you on your wonderful insight conny.. i agree we are both sensitive especially with each other.. is it because im a snake and he's a rabbit? So if we were to get married, the marriage would work? Because there are plans to get married in the next year.. and i need to know if this could work out for us.. what datemight u suggest for us? Thanks so much..

Probably that is caused by your different personalities due to the zodiac signs.

Well, if you get married, you need to bear each other more and try to spare sufficient personal space. By doing so, you will stay together happily.

Yes he is an aries and im a libra.. we are polar opposites.. i heard that the polar opposites relationship can either be really good or really bad.. it is intense.. but we do have a composite grand trine in water.. our synastry chart is alright.. thats why i wanted further explanations from the chinese astrology perspective..just to fully understand the intensity of this relationship and see if it can really work..

Plus i have my venus in scorpio.......that makes things tough..my mars is in libra.. his mars is taurus and venus is pisces..