hi, my birthdate is Dec 5 1977 and my husband's is feb 16 1976, we both are facing problems in career , & even our family life is not good.

For your family life, you may need to adapt to each other and learn to understand each other.
For your career, 2013 is a good time for your husband to develop his career. He may get a lot of help from people around and he can even get a promotion if he can work hard. However, for you, it is not a good time, but you still need to have a positive attitude towards life.