Should I be bold and make the first move? I was born 10-4-75 and hers is 2-11-90.

You may be a couple requiring constant encouragement and long-term joint efforts to make your relationship harmonious. Both of you are practical and self-centered. You are elegant, steady and intelligent, while she is too confident, flighty and greedy. Every time when she is enthusiastic and active, you appear cold and tired.