Answered by Aika
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Apr. 12, 2013 10:25
Not to be rude and sorry if it is. Your post made me laugh. Mostly because I guess I see my girlfriend, somewhat in the words you said. She is a Metal Horse (1990) I'm an Earth Dragon (1988). We are both women. We enjoy each others company a lot. Taking commands is somewhat a problem. I love her so much though that I give way. I let her get what she wants.
I would have to agree, I too am a worst listener, sometimes can be forgetful. I am also really careless, hahaha! Specifically in eating or dropping things, sometimes slow. It annoys the hell out of her. hahaha! In the end of arguments and disagreements, we just have the same mutual "humor". I truly believe its "humor" that keeps us strong and together. A dragon is always loyal to its mate. Especially, when they have set their mind on settling down. I honestly do not see a future without her. I believe life would be meaningless without her in the picture. Again, I find the most problem is taking control. My girlfriend does not trust me with that, it is bothering and funny at the same time.
If he loves you beyond words, you will know by his actions TOWARD YOU. Mostly its the little things that are unnoticeable. I love my girlfriend so much, I don't mind her demands. Most especially if I know its for me. It does take a lot of work to convince me that its good for me to change for whatever she wants me to change "about" me. So, to answer your question, it just takes "patience" and a little more of "tolerance". Dragons are hard to have them be committed there "independence" to one person.