HI... im a female fire dragon in chinese calendar

I have met a guy that is a water dog it says in all zodiac sign we have to avoid each other but im dating him for 3 months now but we seems like we get along should i continue dating him?

also i know another guy his year of the wood rat..even we havent seen each other we already have a really good connection. we talk a lot and his planning on visiting this month before i go back to the states..should i meet him?