i am january 09,1989 born and my boyfriend january 30, 1989 born will we get married.

Generally, it is compatible. Both of you and your BF are talented, but you are very stubborn so that you may have some unexpected arguments. In these cases, as long as you calm down to settle the problems, your relastionship will be better. And by then, you can certainly get married.
Also I want to tell you that try to spare enough personal space for each other in daily life.