I am born on 13 -02-69 in earth monkey which day, month and year girl is lucky and compatable for me

I would please like to know is Earth Dragon and Metal Dragon the only match suitable for me as I had been divorced with a fire Dragon of 11-08-1976. I would please like to know if I shall get a good loving wife with sons as I was born on 13-02-69, at 1:30 pm afternoon, mumbai, India.