i was born year of the rabbit. (01,29,1978) and my husband under the year of the rooster(04,11,1981)

It is not so sure. Actually, you two can do best if you awork hard together. If this combination is to work, both need to accept the negative traits of the other. Rooster should learn that perfection isn't all it's cracked up to be and sometimes it is nice to stay home and be cozy. Rabbit needs to learn to control their moods and limit their spending.