Answered by Vincent Brian Wong from Malaysia | Jan. 18, 2013 01:22
Yes, coz my wife and I are proof of it. We are married for 8 years and we never had any major problem. Got a daughter who is 5 now. As long as we remember to respect each other, all problems can be seen as small obtacles. Rat and Ox sign are secret friends and also zodiac housemate (the only other animal sign with this double auspicious bonding are the horse and sheep) they are very compatible. The rat (yang)is inniciator while the ox (yin)completes.
Thoughout our marrige, I have always discurage my wife not to use words like "break up", "divorce", "separation" etc. It is because, we must watch out thoughts, otherwise it will become words. Then watch our words, coz it may become action. So, we tend to stay away from all these words. It is also especially important to to fight or had an arguement whenever one or another is going or leaving the house for work or holiday travel. This is so because, whenever one is leaving the house, there is always chances that the person may not come home again. Whenever we felt that we are heading towards a big arguement, one of us will work out and will take time to cool off before resuming the conversation.
These are the few simple examples that my wife and I practise and so far I must say we are pretty successful mainatin harmony at home. Hope you have a great time and life with your partner.
Cheerio!
vbw