Can I help people without scaring, pissing off or turning them off and still be myself?

I know I am a dragon because I went to the deepest lifestyle and came back up many times in my life. If my life was a RPG I would have max experience and medium shields because I always want to protect others that seem weaker even though I have been strung out to the max on everything and should be dead but still retain strong health and mind after major bouts with meth and more meth. Oops if I offended anyone... I have spoken to many people but could not save my father who chose to do what he wanted until the sad but surprisingly gentle end. He died in his sleep at 47. I keep trying to help people but they don't believe the things I say about how bad things can get, unto death. I'm a good dragon and I want everone to live, please don't die for foolish things that you cannot take on to the next life, and yes there is One.