Mrs. Celina; Thank-you for your response. Our son and daughter-in-law did just tell us yesterday that they will receive gifts that will cover the wedding expenses. That is incredible for me to understand. Chinese people must be very generous with their gifts! It is still hard for me to believe that they will invite 500 guests, and that is without any of the groom's family! It is interesting to learn about your customs. Can you suggest a nice gift for our son's new in-laws when we first are welcomed into their home? They brought us gifts when they came here, beautiful hand-made needlework by the brides mother. But I'm not very handy like that. Thanks, everyone!