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Asked by Vij from united states | Mar. 06, 2017 00:20

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Hi,We are married for long time. I'm horse born in dec 1978 and he is Tiger born in nov 1974.

We always gets misunderstanding or arguments for all topics. I feel he always over me ordering me to do thinks. Which I hate. Will our marriage last for ever. I'm also concerned about my health. How it looks for me in 2016.

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Answered by Viji | Mar. 06, 2017 00:22

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How is the health looks for me in 2017

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Answered by Peter | Mar. 06, 2017 05:10

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Vij,
I’m not surprised at all at what you say, and I agree with you, that it is the case. The compatibility table from this page shows that Horse and Tiger get top mark in love and also in understanding each other. This rule doesn’t apply to you. Your yearly element is Earth, while his yearly element is Wood. Earth finds to his or her annoyance that Wood controls him or her, and bosses him or her around. This is an inherent fault for all relationships between people born 4 years apart. Back to you, you are personally in a big predicament, because your togetherness is in great danger of dissolution. This year you are in extra danger, because the Rooster pays attention to every small detail. As you probably know, every one of us wishes that the other partner should change, while our own person should stay the same. My advice to you is not to pay attention to his provocation, and to make sure you keep away from any argument, on any topic. Refuse to get into verbal fights. This could be his strategy, to get you mad, so he could get out of this marriage, which if is long enough (you didn’t provide the date when you two married), you stand to lose money and assets now and in the future. 2017 will be a normal year for you, and you stand to benefit from it somehow. Your health is also going to be good. Always remember the golden rule when dealing with a Tiger. Never contradict him, even if he is wrong, because if you do, you may live to regret it. United you win. Divided you lose. I wish good luck to both of you in resolving this problem.

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Answered by Peter | Mar. 09, 2017 05:06

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This is the interpretation for Earth Horse born 4/7/1978 on the subject of who is his best match for marriage. Is a woman born 4/3/1979 his best match? Or a woman born 12/18/1975 is his best match.

EH,
You have excellent meeting points of planets with the woman born in the year of the Goat 1979. Looking at her chart I have noticed she had Moon in Cancer, which is a good indication for having children. Her Venus is in Pisces, which is the best position of this planet. She has understanding and love for you. Her Jupiter conjuncts your’ Sun and your Moon, and these are the best aspects for long-term relationship. She has a positive effect on you. You feel good in her company. Together, you will be prosperous and fortunate. You trust each other, are both optimistic, and you share things unreservedly. She has a problem regarding her love life. Her Saturn opposes her natal Venus, so she will have all her life emotional dissatisfaction and financial hardships. She is disappointed in love, and nothing makes her happy, so she gets depressed. She will be unhappy with her husband if he is poor, or domineering. She will be unlucky in her employment, as it doesn’t pay well. She had to go to work since she was young. She may never marry. As for how do you get along with the second woman born in the year of Wood Rabbit 1975, you two have an excellent meeting point of your planets, as your Jupiter was conjunct her Moon, and you two will get along perfectly. The way I see it, both women are perfect match for you. Based on what I said, you have to choose.

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Answered by EH | Mar. 09, 2017 14:11

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well Peter I don't know how my question got mixed in with Vij's? Well that is a huge pressure to know that if i'm not making enough money the goat 4/3/79 will be dissatisfied. I'm looking for marriage for sure. The Rabbit is wood which can be controlling...looking for my happiest place in a marriage

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Answered by Peter | Mar. 31, 2017 03:20

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EH,
Putting your signature on the perfect marriage document is like winning the Lottery. The majority of us have to compromise and accept a lesser than perfect marriage. Good luck to you.

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