Hi Should I fight or let it go?

I am a patient and kind person. He seems like he cannot grow up, gossips to everyone, not working, not saving his goals expects me to pay, hiding money from me, and lies. I do not want to be in a relationship where I am the only adult plus I would like to rent my own place with him and live together and he makes excuses for everything. He also drags other women into our relationships. Family loves me and I love them. I thought he really cared at one point. Should I just move on? Feeling ready but nervous... 04/08/1994 his is 01/11/1994