I'm a man born June 15 1975 and my wife is born September 13 1978

Don't be an idiot. Stop seeing your mistress, or break up with your wife. You don't need to be an astrologist to figure this one out. Man up.

I agree. You should make a choice between them. Then you will have a chance to gain real happiness.

The truth is you're going through your mid age crisis when you think that half of your life has gone and you are not as young, sexy, energetic anymore, that's your subconscious fear and you trying hard to fight the fear by sexing up with a young girl to prove yourself that you can still do it. In fact if you're content and confident about yourself as a human being, then you'd better forward all your energy that you're wasting on a young stranger, forward the energy and effort on your spouse who loved you, supported you and been there for you through all the storms and sunshine. Stop encouraging your fears and insecurities. It takes ages to build a family and only seconds to loose and break the union. The choice is yours. God bless.

It takes ages to build a union/family and takes only seconds to destroy to loose the family. Example: my father was going through a midlife crisis and got a mistress younger than him. It was a very painful experience for my mother, for us grown up children. He had a choice of keeping what he worked for whole his life -Family or start building a new family wz a stranger. He realised that his wife and family were more important than a sex adventure. After 10 yrs he had a stroke, his wife and children by his side and taking a great care of him 24/7. Had he left his wife for a mistress, she wouldn't have coped wz his disability and he would've bn left alone in his grief. That's life, that's choice, that's faith.

If you are looking for guidance outside your conscience and into numbers, then take these numbers from a Chinese zodiac, Fire dragon. You live in a Christian nation. Refer to Christian numbers. Your birthday when you turn 40 will be 06/15/15. Reduced this by adding 0+6/1+5/1+5 and you have 6/6/6. If by your 40th birthday you do not keep your covenant between you, your nations god and your wife, then you will bear the mark of the beast. dun dun dun dun. Just forget the mysticism and do the right thing. Don't be a douche. Meet the needs of your wife and plead for her to do the same. No mind reading, communicate.